How to Find Witch Friends: Beginner Guide to Building a Community

In a world where spiritual paths are more diverse and visible than ever, many people are embracing witchcraft as a meaningful practice. Whether you're new to the craft or have been practicing for years, one thing becomes clear: having like-minded friends makes the journey richer and more rewarding. But how do you find witch friends—people who understand your path, share your interests, and support your growth?

Finding a community of witches may seem intimidating at first, especially if you live in a conservative area or are just beginning to explore your spiritual side. But with the right approach, it's completely possible to connect with fellow witches, both online and in person. This guide will show you how.

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1. Understand What Kind of Witch Friends You're Looking For

Before you start searching, take a moment to reflect on what kind of connections you're hoping to make. Are you looking for:

• Casual friends who share an interest in witchcraft?

• Study partners to explore spells, tarot, astrology, or herbalism?

• A coven or group with regular rituals and traditions?

• Mentors or teachers to guide you?

• Online friendships if local connections aren’t possible?

Knowing your goals will help you find the right community and avoid wasting time on groups that don't align with your values.

2. Start by Looking Within

The most important step in finding witch friends is being true to yourself. You don’t have to be an expert in witchcraft to make connections. You just need to be authentic and open about your interest.

If you’re nervous about identifying as a witch, start by embracing your curiosity. Read books, keep a journal, explore different paths (Wiccan, eclectic, green witch, hedge witch, etc.), and get comfortable talking about your journey. The more grounded you are in your own practice, the easier it will be to attract like-minded people.

3. Explore Online Communities

The internet is one of the easiest places to meet other witches, especially if you're just starting out or live in a remote area. There are thousands of online communities where witches gather to share knowledge, ask questions, and form friendships.

Some good places to start:

• Reddit: Subreddits like r/witchcraft, r/realwitches, and r/pagan are full of discussion and advice.

• Facebook Groups: Search for local or global witchcraft groups. Look for communities that are active and respectful.

• Discord Servers: Many witchcraft communities now host private Discord servers where you can chat in real time, join study groups, and attend virtual rituals.

• Instagram and TikTok: The #witchtok and #witchesofinstagram hashtags can help you discover people who align with your beliefs and aesthetics.

• Witch-focused forums and apps: Websites like Witchvox (archived), WitchLink, or Amino’s witchcraft community can connect you with practitioners from around the world.

When joining online spaces, take time to read the rules, engage respectfully, and avoid immediately asking for spells or secrets—build trust first.

4. Attend Local Events and Workshops

If you're open to meeting people in person, start by looking for spiritual or metaphysical events in your area. You don’t always need to search for “witches” specifically—many witchy folks gather at broader events like:

• Pagan festivals

• Tarot or astrology workshops

• Full moon circles

• Herbalism classes

• Crystal or metaphysical fairs

• Occult bookstores or metaphysical shops

Ask your local metaphysical store if they host events or know of any local covens or study groups. Many shops have bulletin boards with flyers or business cards from local practitioners.

Meeting people face-to-face allows you to build deeper relationships and get a feel for someone’s energy and values. Be patient—friendships take time to grow.

5. Join a Coven or Study Group (If That’s Your Path)

Joining a coven is one of the most traditional ways to find witch friends. Covens are small, often private groups of witches who gather to practice ritual, celebrate the seasons, and support one another. But not all witches are part of covens—many are solitary practitioners or form looser study groups.

How to find one:

• Ask in online communities if anyone knows of groups in your area.

• Visit local metaphysical shops and ask discreetly about covens.

• Attend public rituals or open circles and see who you connect with.

Keep in mind that covens often have an initiation process and may not be open to everyone. Be respectful, and don’t take it personally if a group isn’t a fit. Not all witches work well together, and that’s okay.

6. Be Honest and Respectful When Reaching Out

When connecting with new people—whether online or in person—lead with curiosity and kindness. Here are a few tips for reaching out:

• Introduce yourself and your interests.

• Ask open-ended questions: “What kind of path do you follow?” or “Do you celebrate the Sabbats?”

• Share what you’re learning or excited about.

• Avoid demanding time, lessons, or spells from new acquaintances.

• Respect different paths and traditions—witchcraft is diverse, and no one has all the answers.

People respond well to authenticity. You don’t need to pretend to be more experienced than you are.

7. Build Your Own Circle

If you can’t find an existing community that fits, create your own. Start a small meetup or online group for witches in your city or those with similar interests. You might be surprised how many people are quietly looking for the same thing.

Use platforms like:

• Meetup.com

• Facebook Events

• Eventbrite

• Instagram stories or posts

Be clear about your group’s intention—whether it's casual conversation, full moon rituals, or book studies—and keep it welcoming. Starting small is fine. Even one or two good witch friends can make a huge difference.

8. Practice Witchcraft Publicly (When Safe)

Another way to attract witchy friends is by being open about your practice—in a way that feels safe and empowering. This doesn’t mean shouting it from the rooftops, but small signs can help you attract your people:

• Wear a pentacle, moon necklace, or crystal jewelry.

• Carry a tarot deck, a witchy book, or a journal in public.

• Decorate your home or social media with spiritual symbols.

• Talk openly (but respectfully) about your interests.

You might be surprised how often someone will approach you and say, “Are you into that too?” Sharing your interests naturally invites others to connect.

9. Be Patient—Real Friendship Takes Time

Like any meaningful relationship, building witch friendships takes time. Don’t be discouraged if your first few interactions don’t turn into deep bonds right away. Not every witch you meet will become your best friend—and that’s okay.

Look for people who:

• Respect your spiritual path

• Listen and share with honesty

• Inspire you to grow

• Celebrate your uniqueness

It’s better to have a few genuine friends than many surface-level connections.

10. Keep Growing Spiritually and Socially

As you grow in your own practice, your energy naturally shifts—and so will the people you attract. Keep studying, trying new things, and staying open. The right people often show up when you're deeply connected to your path.

And remember: witch friendships aren’t just about spells and rituals. They’re about support, shared wisdom, laughter, healing, and connection. Witches have always formed communities—through persecution, through secret gatherings, and now through the digital age. You’re not alone.

Final Thoughts

Finding witch friends is a journey of both inward and outward discovery. By being true to your practice, reaching out in the right places, and staying open to connection, you’ll find your circle—whether online, in person, or both.

Witchcraft is a path of empowerment, healing, and magic. But it’s even more powerful when shared. So light your candle, open your heart, and start seeking your people. They’re out there—waiting to find you too.

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